Finding Home Away from Home: My Journey as an International Student in the UK
Moving to a new country to study is often described as exciting, life-changing, and full of opportunities. While all of that is true, there is another side that is not spoken about enough — homesickness, culture shock, and the quiet moments of self-doubt. I’m Pritty Siva, from Malaysia, and I have been studying in the UK since 2023, pursuing a BA in English Language and TESOL. This is a small reflection on my journey so far.
When I first arrived in the UK, everything felt unfamiliar. The weather was colder than I expected, the food tasted different, and even simple conversations felt challenging because of accents and cultural references. Back home, I was surrounded by family, familiar routines, and comfort. In the UK, I suddenly had to learn how to be independent in ways I never had before — from managing finances to cooking meals that reminded me of home.
Homesickness didn’t hit me immediately. At first, I was busy settling in, attending classes, and meeting new people. But after the excitement faded, I began to miss the small things — my family’s voices, Malaysian food, festivals, and the feeling of belonging without having to explain myself. There were days when I questioned whether I had made the right decision.
Culture shock was another challenge. Academic expectations were different, especially in a course like English Language and TESOL, where critical thinking, independent research, and participation are essential. It took time to build confidence in my academic voice and trust that my background and perspective were not weaknesses, but strengths.
What helped me most was allowing myself time. I learned that it’s okay to feel uncomfortable and lost sometimes. I started connecting with other international students who understood exactly what I was going through. Sharing experiences, laughing about misunderstandings, and supporting one another made a huge difference. Slowly, the UK stopped feeling like a temporary place and began to feel more like a second home.
I also learned the importance of balance — staying connected to my culture while embracing a new one. Cooking Malaysian meals, celebrating cultural festivals, and calling home regularly helped me stay grounded. At the same time, I challenged myself to step outside my comfort zone, explore new places, and engage with different perspectives.
Studying abroad is not just an academic journey; it is a personal one. It teaches resilience, independence, and self-discovery. To any international student reading this: your feelings are valid, and you are not alone. Growth often comes from discomfort, and one day you may look back and realise how far you’ve come.
Starting a life in a new country is never easy, but it is worth it. You don’t lose your home — you simply learn how to carry it with you.
- Pritty Siva